Romance For Him

Here are some romantic tips and ideas for your Mr. Right. If you conscientiously practice instead of preaching the below list of ideas, you'll be sure that he will love you even more ...

Prepare a sumptuous meal. The first step to a man's heart is to know how to fill his stomach

Give him a relaxing and soothing massage

Brush or comb his hair

Soak together with him. Bathe and scrub him

Don't buy a card, rather make it yourself (& it works).

Tell him how much you loved him.

Get him the sensuous and sexy briefs you want him to wear all along.

Break the convention. Take him out for a meal. Pay for the meal as of course

Exchange a list containing each other's likes and dislikes.

Start saving for a special holiday fund for the two of you

Just take time out to express your feelings, thoughts, fears and even fantasies to him..

Give him a kiss on his cheek.

Get him the cologne you like him to wear.

Take a long walk holding each other's hands.

Do something together. eg fix a jigsaw puzzle or play a game together etc

Wear the lingerie the he likes the most even if it's not your favorite

Get him a watch.

Kiss and Hug her often.

Write a sincere, wonderful love letter.

Buy a nice set of lingerie and briefs. Let him choose the lingerie for you.

Take him out for a scroll.

Surprise him with gifts. Guys not only girls need surprises at times too.

Take him out for a long romantic drive.

Decorate the house especially for him.

List down twenty-five things that you like about him and fifty things that you don't like.

Visit a place where he always wanted to go, but never got the chance.

And finally, whatever you do, just let your hair and your defenses down, and enjoy each other's company.

Sure you can think of many more romantic tips to show your love - this should give you some good ideas!

100 Quick Romantic Ideas

1. One word- Foreplay
2. Wear his clothes.
3. Go for a long walk down the beach at midnight.
4. Listen to classical music and cuddle in the dark or w/ backlight
5. French Kiss.
6. Hugs are the universal medicine.
7. Whisper to each other.
8. Cook for each other.
9. Kiss/smell her hair.
10. Make out in the rain.
11. Dress each other.
12. Undress each other.
13. Say I love you, only when you mean it and make sure they know you mean it.
14. Hold hands.
15. Sleep together. (Actually sleep with each other-not sex)

Below are 50 Top Most Popular Honeymoon Destinations which means it's a must go to at least 1 of them. Hope you are able to find your ideal destinatio

1. Aruba ~ A hot, dry destination, Aruba registers an average temperature of 82 degrees year-round -- and things get even hotter when the sun goes down and the casinos and discos gear up.

2. Bermuda ~ Explore Michael Douglas' award-winning romantic hideaway in Bermuda, where pastel cottages overlook the turquoise ocean. A Bermuda colony of cottages along the ocean. Rated one of the world's best resorts by Condé Nast Traveler readers.

3. Florida

4. Hawaii ~ Overview of the islands' unique allure..

5. Italy ~Discover one of the country's most scenic regions.

6. Jamaica ~ Eleven beachfront, couples-only, all-inclusive resorts in Jamaica, Antigua, St. Lucia, and the Bahamas. Discover the differences between SuperClubs' Grand Lido, Hedonism, and Breezes brands -- knowing the right one for you will make a big difference in the quality of your vacation.

7. Las Vegas ~The very best Las Vegas hotels, Las Vegas gourmet restaurants, and Las Vegas wedding chapels. Find great value in Las Vegas, great fun in Las Vegas , and great variety in Las Vegas -- even for non-gamblers.

8. Mexico ~ Experience the bliss of a beachfront herbal massage for two, the spiritual energy of an ancient pyramid, the utter relaxation of bathing in warm turquoise waters on a Mexico spa vacation.

9. St. Lucia ~ Romance in the Caribbean, from your About.com Guide. Special focus on Anse Chastanet Resort, which has both all-inclusive and regular rate plans.

10. Tahiti ~ Totally unwind in one of 147 private Balinese villas at the property ranked No. 1 Resort in the World by readers of Condé Nast Traveler magazine.

11. U.S. Virgin Islands ~ A state-by-state guide to the most romantic places for couples to travel to honeymoon or vacation in the USA.

12. France ~ Your starting point for discovering the romance of France, with links to incoming agencies that can help you arrange a vacation, honeymoon, or wedding.

13. British Virgin Islands ~ Overview of the BVI, where lovers hide away from the maddening crowds. Includes links.

14. Fiji ~Love and romance (and a traditional Fiji wedding ceremony, if you like) at Vatulele Island Resort, which Gourmet magazine calls "the creation of perfectionists." Fiji article by your Honeymoons/Romantic Getaways Guide.

15. Bahamas ~ Explore this fantasy vacation resort, based on the legend of the lost world of Atlantis.

10 easy steps to start Pampering yourself and your loved ones on a trip when you/her have always dream of going.

Explore! Go Some Place You've Always Dreamed of Seeing
Is there a place you've always wanted to visit? Instead of heading for the same old destination on your next getaway, go where your dreams lead. Learn more about that place and what awaits you there.

Splurge! Book a Top-of-the-Line Hotel
There's a reason the same hotels perennially crop up on best lists: They are better. Their rooms are bigger, prettier, cleaner. Their food is fresher and more carefully prepared. Their staff is friendlier and more helpful; they truly want you to enjoy your visit. Even if you can only go for a night, experience what it's like to love in the lap of luxury.

Sail Away! Treat Yourselves to a Cruise
It only takes one cruise to get hooked on the thrill of sailing: The fresh sea air, the diverse ports and activities, the all-inclusive price, the cornucopeia of food, the pleasure of having your own cabin steward to clean your room twice a day. Need I go on? Find out more

Explore! Go Some Place You've Always Dreamed of Seeing
Is there a place you've always wanted to visit? Instead of heading for the same old destination on your next getaway, go where your dreams lead. Learn more about that place and what awaits you there.

Splurge! Book a Top-of-the-Line Hotel
There's a reason the same hotels perennially crop up on best lists: They are better. Their rooms are bigger, prettier, cleaner. Their food is fresher and more carefully prepared. Their staff is friendlier and more helpful; they truly want you to enjoy your visit. Even if you can only go for a night, experience what it's like to love in the lap of luxury.

Sail Away! Treat Yourselves to a Cruise
It only takes one cruise to get hooked on the thrill of sailing: The fresh sea air, the diverse ports and activities, the all-inclusive price, the cornucopeia of food, the pleasure of having your own cabin steward to clean your room twice a day. Need I go on? Find out more

Say "I Do" Again! Celebrate a Vow Renewal
If you loved your spouse enough to get and stay married, perhaps it's time to let the world know you'd do it all over again. Many wonderful resorts host vow renewal ceremonies, and staff can help you make the event as personal and formal or informal as you like.

Gambol! (and Gamble) on a Las Vegas Getaway
There's no city in the USA that's more fun in Las Vegas. A couple of nights here will revive you, even if you find Vegas so stimulating that you don't sleep a wink!

No Kids Allowed! Take a Childfree Vacation
Robert Benchley said it best: "In America, there are two classes of travel: First class, and with children." Go first class.

Take it Off! Bare it All at a Nude Beach
From California to St. Martin in the Caribbean to Cap d'Agde in France, couples are taking it off. If you've always wanted to vacation clothesfree, or at least do some nude bathing, plan your romantic getaway around some naked frolicking.

Savor a Short One! Enjoy a Weekend Getaway
Go away. But don't go away far. That way, you'll spend less time traveling and more time enjoying yourselves. And you'll be part of a nationwide trend of people who take shorter but more frequent vacations. Find out what they know.

Let the Spirit Move You! Go on a Couples Vacation Retreat
Quiet, please, we're on vacation. At a place that's serene and truly peaceful. No ringing phones, no screaming kids, no distracting activities. To nurture mind, body, and spirit, spend your next vacation at a bucolic mountain, desert or island retreat.

Show Good Taste! Dine Out in a Fine Restaurant
Feed the fires of desire with an aphrodisiacal meal before an evening of l'amour.

Wedding Customs From Around The World

Here we put together a few of the wedding rituals in different countries.

God help the man who won’t marry until he finds a perfect woman and God help him still if he finds her - Benjamin Tillett

DENMARK

Arches of pine branches are built in front of the bride’s home, which symbolises fertility. During the reception, the groom disappears so that all the unmarried young men could kiss the bride and then the bride disappears while all the single young girls kiss the groom.

FINLAND

The bride has to walk from house to house with a pillowcase to collect wedding presents. A married man walks beside her holding an umbrella to symbolise protection and shelter. During the reception, the bride wears a golden crown, and is blindfolded. She is then spun around, while other unmarried girls dance around her, and the one she crowns will be the next one to get married.

NORWAY

Friends and neighbours plant two small pine trees on either side of the bride and groom to symbolise fertility. The bride walks with a silver crown and silver charms, and the music that is created by the charms is supposed to ward off evil spirits.

SWEDEN

The mother of the bride presents her with a gold coin and places it in her right shoe while the father places a silver coin in her left shoe, to ensure that their daughter will never be poor. The groom however presents her with three gold rings - the engagement ring, the wedding ring and the motherhood ring.

CZECHOSLOVAKIA

An infant is laid on the wedding bed to symbolise fertility. The bride and the groom break plates, and the number of pieces the plates break into, is supposedly in direct proportion to the success of their married life.

HUNGARY

The bride wears an elaborate headdress made out of strands of wheat as a symbol of fertility and an egg is presented to her to ensure the health of her future children.

BULGARIA

The bride tosses a dish filled with wheat, coins and raw eggs over her head… if the dish breaks then it will bring her good luck.

ROMANIA

Girls begin preparing their trousseau at the tender age of 6.

GERMANY

When a baby girl is born, several trees are planted. These trees later become the bride’s dowry.

INDONESIA

Thousands of guests attend the wedding reception and the bride and the groom have to greet each guest!

FILIPINO

The groom throws a spear onto the front step of his bride’s house to let everyone know about the intended marriage.

NATIVE AMERICA

When a youngster sibling marries before his older sibling, the older sibling must perform a traditional dance in a pig trough!

FIJI

The grrom is expected to present the bride’s father with a whale tooth!

SCOTLAND

The bridegroom has to carry a large basket filled with stones on his back from one end of the village to another till the bride comes out and kisses him.

JAPAN

The bride wears a purple coloured dress as it is their colour of love.

CHINA

The groom’s family gives a gift of a whole roast pig to the bride’s family.

AFRICA

Young girls get trained to be good wives at a very young age and they learn secret codes that allow them to communicate with other married women with out their husband’s understanding. In Somalia, a girl can be engaged even before she is born. In Sudan, a man must pay his wife’s family, cattle for the loss of their daughter’s labour.

Differences Between Love And Like

In front of the person you love, your heart beats faster
But in front of the person you like , you get happy.

In front of the person you love, winter seems like spring
But in front of the person you like, winter is just a beautiful winter.

If you look into the eyes of the one you love, you blush
But if you look into the eyes of the one you like, you smile.

In front of the person you love, you can' t say everything on your mind
But in front of the person you like, you can.

In front of the person you love, you tend to get shy
But in front of the person you like, you can show your ownself.

Then person you love comes into your mind every 2 minutes.
You can't look straight into the eyes of the one you love
But you can always smile into the eyes of the one you like.

When the one you love is crying, you cry with them
But when the one you like is crying, you end up comforting.

The feeling of love starts from the eye
And the feeling of like starts from the ear.

So if you stop liking a person you used to like
All you need to do is cover your ears,
But if you try to close your eyes
Love turns into a drop of tear and remains in your heart forever after.

Beauty Tips

A dear old lady was asked what she used to make her complexion so beautiful and her whole being so bright and attractive.

She answered:

"I use for my lips, truth

I use for my voice, kindness

I use for my ears, compassion

I use for my hands, charity

I use for my figure, uprightness

I use for my heart, love

I use for any who do not like me, prayer."

How To Install Love ?

A call comes through on the customer service line. Customer Service Rep: Yes, Ma'am, how can I help you today? Customer: Well, after much consideration, I've decided to install love. Can you guide me through the process? CS Rep: Yes, I can help you. Are you ready to proceed? Customer: Well, I'm not very technical, but I think I'm ready to install now. What do I do first? CS Rep: The first step is to open your HEART. Have you located your HEART ma'am? Customer: Yes I have, but there are several other programs running right now. Is it okay to install while they are running? CS Rep: What programs are running ma'am? Customer: Let's see, I have PAST-HURT.EXE, LOW-ESTEEM.EXE, GRUDGE.EXE, and RESENTMENT.COM running right now. CS Rep: No problem. LOVE will gradually erase PAST-HURT.EXE from your current operating system. It may remain in your permanent memory, but it will no longer disrupt other programs. LOVE will eventually overwrite LOW-ESTEEM.EXE with a module of its own called HIGH- ESTEEM.EXE. However, you have to completely turn off GRUDGE.EXE and RESENTMENT.COM. Those programs prevent LOVE from being properly installed. Can you turn those off ma'am? Customer: I don't know how to turn them off. Can you tell me how? CS Rep: My pleasure. Go to your Start menu and invoke FORGIVENESS.EXE. Do this as many times as necessary until GRUDGE.EXE and RESENTMENT.COM have been completely erased. Customer: Okay, done. LOVE has started installing itself automatically. Is that normal? CS Rep: Yes. You should receive a message that says it will reinstall for the life of your HEART. Do you see that message? Customer: Yes I do. Is it completely installed? CS Rep: Yes, but remember that you have only the base program. You need to begin connecting to other Heart's in order to get the upgrades. Customer: Oops. I have an error message already. What should I do? CS Rep: What does the message say? Customer: It says "ERROR 412 - PROGRAM NOT RUN ON INTERNAL COMPONENTS." What does that mean? CS Rep: Don't worry ma'am, that's a common problem. It means that the LOVE program is set up to run on external HEARTS but has not yet been run on your HEART. It is one of those complicated programming things, but in non-technical terms it means you have to "LOVE" your own machine before it can "LOVE" others. Customer: So what should I do? CS Rep: Can you pull down the directory called "SELF-ACCEPTANCE"? Customer: Yes, I have it. CS Rep: Excellent. You're getting good at this. Customer: Thank you. CS Rep: You're welcome. Click on the following files and then copy them to the "MYHEART" directory: FORGIVE-SELF.DOC, REALIZE-WORTH.TXT, and ACKNOWLEDGE-LIMITATIONS.DOC. The system will overwrite any conflicting files and begin patching any programming. Also, you need to delete SELF-CRITIC.EXE from all directories, and to make sure it is completely gone and never comes back, you will need to empty your recycle bin. Customer: Got it. Hey! My HEART is filling up with new files. SMILE.MPG is playing on my monitor right now and it shows that PEACE.EXE, and CONTENTMENT.COM are copying themselves all over my HEART. Is this normal? C Rep: Sometimes. For others it takes a while, but eventually everything gets downloaded at the proper time. So, LOVE is installed and running. You should be able to handle it from here. One more thing before I go. Customer: Yes? CS Rep: LOVE is freeware. Be sure to give it and its various modules to everybody you meet. They will in turn share it with other people and they will return some similarly cool modules back to you. Customer: I will. Thanks for your help. By the way, what's your name? CS Rep: You can call me the Divine Cardiologist, also known as The Great Physician. Most people feel all they need is an annual checkup to stay heart-healthy, but the manufacturer suggests a schedule of daily maintenance for maximum efficiency. Give a little love away ... keep in touch.

A Romantic Cruise

One particular thought is always coming to my mind.

I heard it is very romantic to go to deck and sit on the chair with long space in front for keeping the legs.

I would like to go to the deck with my partner with two glasses and a bottle of red wine. we will stretch ourselves on the chairs, with our legs stretched on the long space. we would feel the cold breeze from the sea passing through our bodies. We can enjoy the blue sky on the clouds. we will have a glass of wine and we would engage in romantic talk.

I will take and hold her hand and raise her hand to my face and slowly caress her palm and start biting romantically the fingers. Then she will take my hand and place it on her waist. I will slowly caress her waist. we both can feel the electricity passing through our bodies.

We will get up and go near the rails to watch the sea. My partner will put her lovely head on my shoulder. My hand will go behind her back and start stroking her back. We will share one more glasses of wine. slowly she will squeeze her body towards me. I could feel the warmth of her. I will raise her chin with my hand and we both will look deep into each others eyes. Now she will raise her head so that i can kiss her on her forehead, later on her closed eyes, on her cheeks and behind the ears. She willl run her hand through my hair behind the head. Slowly, i will put my lips on her warm lips and we both will start kissing. She will come forward and hug me. My hands will stroke her back, She will hold me tightly. We both could feel the warmth of each other's bodies. We will start breathing faster. Soon, the pleasure will become unbearable and we will go back to our room and lock the door

I Will Always Remember You

I Will Always Remember

I will always remember that day when we first met and when you were taken away from me. That dread full day. But today is that day that I must say what’s been hiding in me. I will tell my story to you, to your grave stone, to your soul that still lives on, to that look-a-like cloud that I saw that day.

It was that day, in January, when the principle told us that we had to sit with our homerooms. That was when I noticed you. It was like love at first sight, but I couldn’t, wouldn’t tell anyone until I knew your name. I asked tons of my friends, till I came to Cecily, she said that your name was Mike. Mike. I said your name over and over.

Then that day a few days later your were waiting to go into science, in front of my locker talking to Jay. I said” Could you please move.” And you did and it was my first words that I said to you. The next day, I think it was in second period, you were standing with Luke, Ethan, and Jay. I remember poor Ethan getting punched. I said “Hey guys can I get to my locker?”
Ryan said “Uh no.”

So all I did was move you guys and got to my locker. I opened it and you looked in and saw my locker and which was such a mess. But you didn’t care. I couldn’t stop thinking about you, and I still can’t, I guess it was your.... I have to stop thinking about this, I’m going to get tears on my paper.

Then the second to last day, you were sitting in back of Caitlin, I remember I had I love M. on my hand and, well you saw it, and me acting like I wanted to kill Billy. I was surprised you weren’t discussed. Seriously I was.

In 8th grade I never saw you. You were in the smart people team, and well you know I wasn’t that, well, smart only in the summer, and everybody knew that. I only saw you at lunch. I couldn’t wait till then. I thought about you 24/7, it was getting to much.

In 9th I got to really know you, because you were in all of my classes, and we hung out, and were going out.

I remember the night out to the movies, we snuck in and nobody found out. It was the best night ever. But I think the best time was just hanging out at the park on Becca’s birthday, you, me, and well everyone else but that was a special night, we really had fun.

That night we played like every game in the world to about 1:00. Your parents didn’t care they knew me very well. Then we watched The Others and Thirteen Ghosts. I was so scared but you held me, and I felt so much better. I felt safe, the first time I felt safe with a guy. I knew we would be together for a long time.

In the 10th grade, we were still going strong together, nobody could break us apart. Even if we had a few fights, but every good relationship has a little down side. I was learning how to drive (uh the hardest thing in my life.) I really didn’t get to see you, I was in Las Vegas for most of the summer, that was the hardest summer ever.

In the 11th it was hard, we were preparing for our last year of high school and then collage, we never thought we would get out of it alive. But we went through it perfectly, and guess what no detention, well maybe for our friends but that didn’t matter. We spent that summer together, in New Jersey, which was so much fun, even if it was with our families.

In the 12th we celebrating, it was fun, our last year, and we were all right, still strong with our heart and mind and for our time together, our parents thought that night that we were going to get married with out them knowing, but we wouldn’t go and do that. They gave us to much support, and plus I knew what I wanted, and I didn’t want to go that. You were ok with that. Our friends said that this was something special.

When we both were 21, we started going to clubs. We didn’t go alone just in case, well you know. Our friends always came and things like that.

But it was that night I will remember. That cold, snowy night. Tony was like, gggggrrrrrr.... because of what he had to drink. He said get in to me and you. I didn’t go because Mandee and I were waiting for Becca. I told you to wait to, but you said that you would be fine.

When Becca came, we followed you two. We were wondering were Tony was taking us, I told him to go to my house but instead was going to his. He swerved and hit a another car and we got out and well, you weren’t OK.

I called the ambulance, it took them 20 min. I took of my jacket and put it on you, rubbing your hand and told you it would be all right. When we got into your room, an hour later, the doctor said that it was to late that you had gone. I cried and cried. It had also, been to late for Tony too.

Mandee, dove Becca and I home, was crying my heart out, I couldn’t stop. I kept saying “ I told you, I told you. I told you not to go.”

I was thinking to myself that night that I should have gone with you, so I could be with you. I’m now writing in “the crying room.” And I am crying. Trying to calm myself down but it’s not going to work.

When I got out of Collage I started to work with this program, it teaches about the effects of people driving drunk, and I used you as an example. I don't cry as much anymore. But when I tell my story a lot of people do.

And I still miss you. I come by once in a while, not everyday again. I still sit and talk about the good and bad times.

I will always remember, your face, your smile. I will always remember You

Dreams Do Come True

"Close your eyes" Maryian said.. "And the first thing you think of is.. what you really desire..." I did and all I could see was Him... Yes, my dream crush, Brandon Marshall, that tall dark and handsome guy who I watched every Thursday mourning at my job.. He would deliver packages. I knew every girl practically loved Brandon, he was gorgeous, he looked as if he stepped out of a model ad for Tommy Hilfiger ad. I mean it wasn't just his looks the boy had a personality, he spoke Italian, his mom was part that and he can cook a mean Lasnaga .. so i heard.. well one day while dreamin' about my future "hubby" lol.. i drifted off to a dream of him and me kissing by the pond out there near the park.. i always wanted to just be with him doing something sweet.. but I was just average girl.. don't get me wrong i was cute.. not as cute as Arie` (Are-Ree) his ex-girl miss model- she was skinny- well any ways all I wanted to do was get lost in his hazel browns and kiss his soft lips till I couldn't kiss him anymore. So one day while talking to the customer at the coffee shop. Brandon came in just as he usually did every Thursday with a hand full of boxes delivering packages. There stood this fine 6' hazel eyes full lips curly hair guy. My heart danced as he came near- could it be he's finally going NOTICE me!!!.. so he looks at my way- i die!! he than smiles- i look to see if any girl was behind me. My Co-worker, Maryian was smiling tords me- she knew i liked him- hello! he's all i talk 'bout since i first saw him, well anyways here he comes closer- i feel sweaty and my hear pounds a mile a minute- sounds of love music plays in my mind- Well he comes near and says.. , So, i noticed you cutie what's your name? "I was shaking and i told him it's , "NaTasha" He than looked in my eyes i felt so happy... he than than took my hand and kissed it and said.. he been noticing me every time he was shy and he couldn't keep his feelings in any longer. I nearly fainted... He than asks me down near the pond by the park downtown my dream spot.. I agree.. So later we I meet him there he's looking even cuter under moonlight. He brings a CD Boombox and bottle of wine with two glasses. He lays out a blanket and bends over ( nice butt =) } anyways he turned on the Radio.. and 'butterflies'- By Michael Jackson flows through the air. He than pulls me near and looks in my dazed my eyes.. and i feel dizzy in his arms - i wonder am i dreaming? well he whispers.. to me "Il vostro così bello stasera"- Speaking Italian-I ask him what he just said he said "Your beautiful tonight" It sounds good in any language i thought. He than holds me tight and we dance slowly to the music.. his hands explore me and my heart beats to every touch. He slightly pulls away and looks me in my eyes and than he kisses my lips and i swear i felt my heart stop the world froze and than something took over my body. He than pulls away and kisses me again. I feel rain drops touch my skin as it lightly pours. we still dance and kiss in the rain. He than pulls away a he lays me out on the blanket and he lays besides me he pours the wine and we talk about everything and i feel im fallin' in love with him and i knew that my heart was his now. He took his hands and lightly touched my face and my heart jumped. He looked in my eyes and he smiled. We cuddled as it slightly rained- ROMANTIC!!! anyways he said he liked me the whole time and he was shy and now that he has me- he wouldn't let me go so easy/ I was very happy as we laid there most of the night just talking about life.. well about a year later.. we married and now we still come back to this spot to dance....and talk till the sunrise.. love happened to me and i say hey as much as you think he'll never be yours. think again Love will happen if it's suppose to happen ..Remember that. Hope you enjoyed my little story!!